In this video clip, “The age of the involved dad has arrived.” There is a cultural sea change…they are children of the women’s movement and the culture of divorce. She says, “There used to be a difference between father and mother…now they are morphing into a unisex/spouse/parent.”
Same Journey – Different Results. They left at the same time, but one would return and the other would perish. This is the story of personal life, family life, church life, and business life. It matters how you proceed. Here is a dramatic example: the 1911 Antarctic expedition led by Roald Amundsen and Robert Scott. The destination of both men was the South Pole, but the results of their two journeys were radically different. (more…)
Today, the Christian Post released my article called “The Greatest Untapped Evangelistic Opportunity Before the Modern Church.”
In it, you’ll read,
There are many mission fields, but family presents what may be the greatest untapped evangelistic opportunity before the church today. What is at stake is the salvation of millions of children under the evangelistic and discipleship ministry of fathers and mothers in the home. This is not the only mission field, to be sure, but it is perhaps the most neglected mission field before the church in our time.
Please read the full article and like it, tweet it, or google+ it on the Christian Post.
Don’t Worry Be Happy…Someone sent me a link to this video and it brought back a flood of memories. Many years ago when I was a young father going through huge financial challenges, I would crank up the stereo on Saturday mornings and play this song, with all my children sort of dancing around the house going about their Saturday chores and singing with their daddy. (more…)
I have a really sedentary job so I have my iPhone alarm set for 10:15 AM and 3:15 PM to remind me to do pushups. Further on, I will tell you why I do pushups. In short, I do it to get my heart rate up and pump more energy into my system. I often work standing up, but while that helps, I find that is not enough. (more…)
Have you ever had to deal with someone who hates you? At the end of this post, I’ll list three thoughts about how to think and act in this circumstance.
Back in the era of Lincoln, General Robert E. Lee had to deal with this. Erwin Lutzer writes about this:
General Robert E. Lee spoke in the highest terms to President Lincoln about an officer who was known to have nothing but hatred and disrespect for him (that is, for Robert E. Lee), his commanding officer. When someone pointed out to the general the contempt this man had for him, General Lee replied, “Yes, that’s true. But the President asked my opinion of him, not his opinion of me. – Erwin W. Lutzer, When You’ve Been Wronged: Overcoming Barriers to Reconciliation, (Chicago: Moody, 2007), Kindle, 162.
If you have a boss or friend or maybe a church member who is out to undermine you or hurt your reputation, here are three things you should remember (more…)
On Cinco de Mayo, the NCFIC is launching the NCFIC and Divided websites in Spanish!
To view the NCFIC Spanish website, click here.
To view the Divided Spanish website, click here.
Divided has been fully subtitled in Spanish and is available online with many of the bonus features actually dubbed in Spanish. Please share this with your Spanish neighbors and friends.
With our Memorial Day Picnic coming up soon, my thoughts are on those who have come and gone. My friend Wesley Strackbein has written a powerful piece to help us remember the importance of honoring the hoary head.
God’s word commands us to “rise up before the hoary head, and honour the face of the old man” (Leviticus 19:22). The men and women of the Great Depression who yet remain with us are truly “the last almost of a race.” If we are to be faithful Christians, it is critical that we let the aged know that — though they may have lost most of their old comrades and their life-long sweethearts — we care greatly about their past and appreciate the battles they fought before we were born.
We must do more than abide their eccentricities and humor their story-telling. We must truly honor the white-haired elders among us by endeavoring to understand the unique challenges they endured. With loving regard, we must convey to them that the memories dear to their heart from decades ago are deeply precious to us. Though we did not drink of their experiences with them, we must let them know that we will mingle their memories and wise insights into our own cup of life.
And if their hearts fail for lack of hope, we must point them to Christ so that they can join the faithful “old timers” in glory — where all of the redeemed will, one day, sup together with God for eternity.
Reports are regularly appearing in the news in terms of cost/benefit analysis and how expensive college is compared with what you get out of it. Now the Wall Street Journal adds to the discussion by reporting about a “controversial recent study, led by the sociologists Richard Arum and Josipa Roksa and summarized in their book “Academically Adrift,” nearly half of all undergraduates fail to demonstrate significant improvements in critical thinking or writing skills during their first two years in college. Even more dismal, particular kinds of knowledge are largely forgotten shortly after the final exam.”
(J.R. Miller, “Daily Bible Readings in the Life of Christ” 1890)
“Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?” Matthew 6:27
So it is useless to worry! A short person cannot, by any amount of anxiety, make himself an inch taller. Why, therefore, should he waste his energy and fret his life away–in wishing he were taller?
One worries because he is too short–another because he is too tall; one worries because he too lean–another because he is too heavy; one worries because he has a lame foot–another because he has a mole on his face. No amount of fretting will change any of these things!
People worry, too, over their circumstances. (more…)
Our church had a great father/daughter retreat over the weekend…Complete with lots of instruction and a canoe trip.