Is it Morally Wrong to Look at Pornography ? An Interview

The World View spoke to Pastor Scott Brown of the National Center for Family-Integrated Churches about why this is the case.  He said that it's the same problem in many cultures.

The interview with Scott Brown starts at six minutes into the interview

Here is the text of the interview:

“For example, Edward Gibbons published a history of the decline and fall of the Roman Empire, and he gave five reasons. And the first and really most fundamental factor was the breakdown of the family. You don't have parents teaching their children. You don't have this inculcation of the Word of God when you sit in the house, when you lie down, and when you rise up.”

Brown said that the breakdown of the family creates lots of time for people to engage in satisfying sinful pleasures.

“When you do that you have lots of time to do lots of different things. Another element Gibbons identified is the craving for pleasure, focused on the body, sports becoming more and more important, more brutal, more exciting. It's the exaltation of the body and pride and things like that. And then he also talks about the decay of religion.” 

Pastor Brown said that the one common factor between all of those is the absence of God's Word.

“They all have to do with a famine of the Word of God. The lamp of the Word of God has gone out. The lamp of the Word of God has gone out.” 

Pastor Brown said there are some disturbing trends that have led to porn being a “morally acceptable” sin.

“You have some trends that really began with the sexual revolution in the 1960s. The Supreme Court said it was impossible to define character. You had a whole generation that exalted rebellion against their parents, and you had this family breakdown like we had never seen in America.”

Pastor Brown explained that fatherlessness has not been good for children growing up in a generation that doesn't condemn the sin of pornography.

“You have a third of American children growing up without their biological fathers. And, by the way, the father is not home, and the kids go home and get on the screen. They're not being deployed to meaningful things.”

Brown said that the solution is shepherding and pastors walking alongside their congregants.

“I think the greatest solution is the mobilization of parents to do what the Bible says they should do, and that is to teach their children, to care for their children, to shepherd their children. Shepherds walk with the sheep, and if the shepherds were walking with the sheep, the sheep wouldn't be thinking there's nothing morally wrong with pornography. And they're not, like some of these adults and children watching pornography into the wee hours of the night; no one is there shepherding them.”  

Pastor Brown said there has been a breakdown of shepherding not just in the family, but also the church.

“I really do believe it's rooted in the destruction of the family and the role of parents and also of the church. The church has become not even a secondary matter rather than the fellowship, the worship, the preaching of the church isn't very important, so there's a lot of time to do a lot of other things.”

Pastor Brown said that pornography is portraying the antithesis of true, godly love.

“It's terrifying for me to think of a whole generation that has grown up in a culture of pornography and what it will do to their marriages. Pornography is the polar opposite of love. 

“For example, the Bible makes it really clear that what makes a marriage work is a husband who loves his wife like Christ loved the church and He gives himself up for her and He nourishes her and He cherishes her. Pornography is taking.  Pornography is objectifying someone. Pornography is using someone. Pornography is inherently selfish.”

Pastor Brown shared the advice he gives to young men when they get married.

“I've done a number of weddings of young people over the years, and one of the things I try to tell the young men is, 'If you've ever seen anything in pornography, don't do it. Don't do it because it's nothing but selfishness.’ Don't replicate that in your bedroom. Go read Ephesians 5.”

Pastor Brown asked that the body of Christ would pray for more shepherding in the homes and more of God's Word.

“We should pray that parents would shepherd their children by walking beside them and taking them to green pastures and not letting them go to bad pastures and the brackish poisonous water. Homes need to be filled with the Word of God. It's the Word of God that's the great protector and it gives blessing to all those who heed it. Those two things are the most critical.”

Pastor Brown concluded by saying that the church of Jesus Christ should be crying out for a revival of biblical church practices of the preaching of the Word, the reading of God's Word, taking the Lord's Supper, and Christian fellowship.  

Ephesians 5:25-28 says, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the Word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.” 

This has been a World View Special Report. I’m Adam McManus.

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Dennis Gunderson explains in this video that prayer meetings have often deteriorated into gatherings of just a handful of people. One reason that so few people show up is because of the way they are led during the meeting. They are led by men who are not men who pray often.  

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1 Timothy 2:8 (NKJV) – “I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.”

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This is the story of a city reborn. In order to perform its function in the plan of God, the city must be re-populated… and God gave His people a spirit of willingness to move, in order to accomplish His purposes. Oftentimes, people need to make dramatic changes in order to advance the kingdom of God. In this case, advancing the kingdom of God meant strengthening worship and economy in the city of Jerusalem. Have you willingly offered yourself for this?

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Fear of God Devotional: The Joy That Comes from Repentance



What is an example of the joy that comes from repentance?

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Psalm 51:12 (NKJV) – “Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, and uphold me by Your generous Spirit.”

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As we arrive in Nehemiah chapter 12, much has happened among the exiles who returned from the Babylonian Captivity a hundred years before. Through the years, there have been hardships and heartbreaks along the way. There were threats and famine from the outside. There were pressures from the inside from faltering faith, selfishness, ceasing the restoration efforts and brothers mistreating brothers. However, much has been accomplished. The temple has been rebuilt, the sacrifices instituted, the wall built, the gates hung, the covenant signed, and the city repopulated. Now, a month after the wall was finished, it is dedicated, and “the joy of Jerusalem was heard afar off” (v43).

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Jeff Pollard explains in this video that after their wedding day, a husband and wife will most likely have an argument. There may be unkind words or wicked attitudes spoken towards each other. Once a husband has sinned against his wife, he must repent of his sin towards her. 

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2 Corinthians 5:17 (NKJV) – “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”

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2 Corinthians 3:18 (NKJV) – “But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.”

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I. He is equal with God in nature, v17-18
II. He is equal with God in works, v19-20
III. He is equal with God in authority, v21
IV. He is equal with God in judgment, v22
V. He is equal with God in honor, v23-24

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Revelations 2:5 (NKJV) – “Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent and do the first works, or else I will come to you quickly and remove your lampstand from its place—unless you repent.” 

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2 Corinthians 5:17 (NKJV) – “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”

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Rob Ventura explains in this video that the fruits of repentance on a national scale would look like a return back to Scripture and the commandments of God. It would involve people repenting and confessing their sin. People of all ages would repent. That would be a beautiful thing.

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2 Chronicles 7:14 (NKJV) – “if My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land.”

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